Real Help.
No Shame. No Judgment. Compassionate, but Real.
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Relatable. Professional. Experienced.
When struggling with deeper sexual or relational problems, you need someone on your side who is not just a sex therapist, but also a full psychologist, meaning someone with doctoral level education, one with 26 years experience is even better. Beyond that, you want someone you can connect with, a doctor who has "been there". That's me. As a trained doctoral psychologist, you will find in me someone who not only has the qualifications but has the relatability to help you overcome your past. Whatever you're going through, let me assure you: There is hope.
Dr. Monte Miller
Specialties
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Infidelity
When your partner cheats or betrays trust with sexual or romantic infidelity, it can be hard to get past the hurt. However, if there is still love, there is hope for reconciliation and restoration; if there isn't, there's a path toward freedom and healing.
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Porn Addiction
Smart phones and the internet have made porn so accessible and so dangerous. Excessive porn use can ruin the quality of one's sex life with a real partner and can ruin a good relationship. No judging here, but for your sake, please get help.
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Kink/Alternative Lifestyles
What others call pervert, I call just a normal person with a unique fetish/kink/lifestyle. I love understanding what makes making people tick in all of the fun sexual ways.
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Polyamorous Relationships
Relationship Counseling is often needed for the wonderful but complex world of polyamory and open relationships. Those involved with multiple love interests and/or those in open relationships such as swinging need a therapist who understands this world and will not judge them for it.
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Depression
Depression is the common cold of mental illness, but it can be so much more than just sadness. It can be crippling. Using the tried-and-true techniques of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, I can help you overcome. There is a path toward happiness and confidence. Have hope.
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Anxiety/Overthinking
Many of us know what it's like to overthink, and many suffer from anxiety as a result. If your mind won't stop thinking and you keep on fearing the worst, always vulnerable to so many possible fears, I have a plethora of strategies to help you get rid of your anxiety.
Invest in your relationship with yourself
We all have the tendency to put others first; in doing so, we can sometimes neglect our relationship with ourselves. Let me be your advocate. I can show you a kinder and gentler way to treat the most important person in your life: you.
Improve your relationship with others
Be your best self when you're alone or with other people. You can cultivate deep and lasting friendships, as well as satisfying and intimate relationships.
Video Introduction
Since you will be doing online therapy with me, here's a short video to show you what it's like to talk to me. I hope you see that I'm just a normal guy — whatever normal is. We are all a little crazy, and that's okay!
If you need more of a taste before committing, you can schedule a free 20-minute consultation with me.
Online Therapy
Convenient, but Personable and Meaningful
I only do therapy online. I've been doing this before the pandemic, before it became the norm. People worry at first that it will be too impersonal, given that psychotherapy is an important relationship. However, my clients and the masses out there — through COVID — have found that it is just as personable and meaningful as in-person therapy.
Try a 20-minute session for free, and find out if we're a good fit.
No commitment. No pressure. No strings attached.